Tell him . . .

Its important to tell him what is really happening,
even if it might not affect the end result

it is his matter what he thinks, react and what he does
and it is your own matter how you feel, what you do
and together truthful sharing 
may become the most important factor 
of a lasting relationship.

however, truthful sharing may not be easy,
too much too sudden sharing of the whole truth,
may shake someone's belief until he hides.
too little too abstract description,
may put people in confusion.

So the simplest first step and bridging this years long communication gap,
is barely describe current situation in the sweetest way possible.

"I am glad you called, we just sat down on the east wing.  We will come over now to the west wing now, see you soon darling !"

"Glad your meeting is over.  We were just talking about Japanese but Chinese is great too"

knowing a person is one thing,
truthful sharing where we stand together is another.
we can't demand nor change the people we love
but its our loves for him that we share truthfully with him.

I will do anything, everything for you

and I just want you to know it

that's all.

Hope this helps . . .

Smile

Smile is a powerful expression

it can show your happiness

and it can hide away all your sorrows

Smile is a powerful weapon

it can disarm your enemies

and it can also fool yourself

from the real you.

individualism vs socialism

once we move towards absolute individualism, existence of human mankind is no longer required.

buy things from zalora

FREE IE, NOT !

Have you ever saw an advertisement said "FREE BEER !" ... then when you walk near, the small wordings say, "after you buy a car" ?

Internet and software is not different . . .

Life is a Line

Life is much like a child game where we draw a line and then whoever cross that line WIN !

Some draw very easy line to cross so they keep themselves Motivated . . .
Some draw a very far line so when they are the ONLY one who can cross there feel REALLY great . . .
Some draw too far a line they never cross it and get Depressed.

As we grow up, all these lines we draw for ourselves become us.  It becomes our fundamentals, culture, philosophy etc.

After we grow up,
we always thought we want this need that . . .
BUT Almost all of us forgot
it WAS initially a line that we drew ourselves into it.

Now we are bound by our own lines without realizing we still have the power to draw new lines again.

Going to a Swing Club

I was thinking to go to a Swing Club and this is what I had in my mind originally . . .

then I remember I am already back to Malaysia . . .

But I am going to Japan next week, may be we can Swing even wilder there ?

after much disappointment . . . I settled with a Real Swing . . .

No Good android news app ?

download a few Malaysia News Android apps but none of them is useful. it seems like most are developed by the same developer? Which I bet is not even a smart phone user. 1. fonts to small, cannot make bigger 2. cannot zoom in 3. ...