明明相爱

有没有试过，看过，听过明明相爱却不能完完全全地爱到底的故事？

可能是背景
可能是习惯
可能是具有不同的需求

可能是已婚
可能是再婚
可能是失婚

其实可能每一段感情都可以算爱不到底。两个人相处始终会有距离。（为什么?）把这个距离矿大了就到不了底。可是如果先把距离搞清楚，然后把头抬高往前看，继续往前走，那就没有所谓的到不到底了（方法）

Japanese @ manjalara

14.03.2015

Today is Pi Day and White Valentine ,  the person you are with the most today is the one you care and love the most, wish you the best !

太多情感

太多的情感输出会变成一种不需要的负担。 也就是像一个小孩子在耍脾气那样。

当一个人无悔地爱着你时候，你的emo可能可以成为他疼你的理由，充满爱意那样来陪你。但当这种被鬼迷的爱意失去后，逻辑和道理都会搬上台面了。 太多的情感输出反而成为了恶性循环的开始。

该把时间放在那里？

爱可以悄悄地来，但也可以突然没了。

财富也是一步一步慢慢累积，却可能突然就没完了

只有你的性格和习惯继续陪着你，

所以你应该把时间放在慢慢培养你希望拥有的性格,身体和习惯，好不好？

Taman Bandaran Kelana

Some parts of the walk way is well lighted 

The night view is stunning ...

a part of walk way welcome by bamboos

partly lake reflection partly real

A clear Reflective scene

here is jungle, out there is civilization

a nicer bamboos path ...

quite a lot of people are fishing here at night ...

I wonder if they are fishing for life or just a habit ?

location

chicken first or egg first

According to cell evolution, it is proven that life evolve from lower form to higher form, from simplicity to complex complete form.  Hence it can only be true cell evolve into an egg first.  Only then the egg evolves into a chicken.


According to Darwin, it is proven that only those who adapt best can survive through generations.  There were first mammal then comes an extinction era.  In order to survive, instead of giving birth just to be extincted, one particular mammal has successfully adapt her body to keep her baby into a cell ... wait till after extinction era then only could she leaves her legacy.  Hence the first chicken has finally exist to lay an egg.


Sometimes people is so focus at ONE moment that they miss out the bigger real world.  If the moment is desirable then go ahead and so be it, enjoy and focus only on that moment.  But then again if sometimes that one particular moment has kept bringing us down, you may as well move on to the next moment.  We decide which moment we want to stay.  After all, it is your life ... and you only live once.


After all ... in today's world, if we want egg we could get egg, if we want chicken we could get chicken.  The question of chicken first or egg first is all but an interesting question.  We may as well enjoy discussing, talking about it.

浪子的爱~风筝

浪子对你的爱就像风筝一样。它可以远走高飞，但却为了你愿意让你一条细细的线邦着。任由你操纵。要它回来就回来，让它出去一下就一下。

风筝随波而流，风大的时候你必须放线。让它飞更高更远。万一你太过理所当然反而拉线那就会断线。风筝就飞走了。

断线飞走了的风筝也不一定就从此失去。偶而十之有一可能会掉回你身边。如果那时你已经有了新的风筝，那当然也不会管这已经断线的风筝了。又或者你根本本来就只是随便玩玩罢了，也就不会发现这风筝的归来。

其实风筝也希望和你飞，一路拉扯学习到合旋，慢慢一起变老。。。