Unfortunately the notion of "taken for granted" is a part of love did not receive much acceptance. Yet I observe many relationships continues to be taken for granted. Once a person found love and being loved back, he shall be contented and enter a comfortable zone. Once he is comfortable, he"assumes" she knows exactly what he knows; He "expects" to be known exactly how he felt ... he took things for granted.
If, unfortunately, she is not on EXACTLY the same page, this "taken for granted" situation usually would felt with negativity and eventually reduce the closeness in a relationship.
which eventually leads to
Finding someone else
who could
love me like the way I love him
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One of the common solutions in most people perception is NOT to take things for granted. That is easier said than done. Human nature, habits and even surrounding influence all leads to ONE STATISTIC - Not many people can escape from the nature of taking things for granted, especially when you truly love someone.
Then comes the alternative option. If you knew you are not the type of person who are discipline enough to "CONTROL" your feeling then you are bounce to look for new love. Hence the only solution is
Fall in LOVE
with the SAME person
AGAIN and AGAIN !!
So the 3 possible options where you SHOULD get married are
- You know him, he knows you, you were made for each other, happily ever after.
- He understands and could CONTROL his feeling, hence never taken you for granted.
- Learn the methods to fall in love with the same person again and again . . .
If you don't have any of these skills, perhaps marriage is NOT a suitable path ?
Share if you think there is another method could make a romance relationship lasts forever . . .
