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Sunday, April 02, 2017

ASTRO gives free satelite TV channels too

A good example of how enterprise counter latest economy trends.  FREE channels are already available by many methods.  Although Astro is late in the game but at least it shows they acknowledged the real challenges and now facing them by the front.

https://www.astro.com.my/njoi


Thursday, February 09, 2017

如何离开一个你还爱的人

在某一些情况下,你可能会想离开一个你还爱的人。这种事情总没有一个所谓对或好的方法,你的个性,他的个性,原因,地点和周围的各种因素都有影响

但最普偏的就是快刀砍乱麻了。一刀了断,说走就走。让时间对各自慢慢疗伤。有人说这是最痛,却也是最快痊愈的方法。这方法的危险性是万一如果不够快,对方发觉了然后就可能悲剧了。通常如果你还爱着他,那这方法不一定行的通。

第二就是慢慢淡化。从一星期三次减到一次·,然后一个月一次,一年等等。把自己的时间填满。当对方不满时,你只好说没办法,真的没时间 。。。这个方法需要恒心。  万一你还爱他,可能很快就被他瓦解了。

还有一个代替法,爱上另一人来离开这个。  可是这个换汤不换药,万一你又必须离开新这个呢?

代表法就是象征性地用一次旅行,或离开这个地方来开始新一段生活。抛开所有从新开始。但如果没说清楚,他会兴高采烈地跟着你一起开始这个新生活。

以上的方法,我都被人用过。每次都成功。不管多么死去活来,结果若干年后现在都成为故事,现在都还是朋友。

而我最理想的方法是 。。。

问他有没有想过离开你,然后说你有耶。然后有什么心情就分享什么。他的反应是什么你就给应该有的回应。把结果交给你们之间的沟通能力。大部分人缺乏沟通能力,通常这样的方法试过几次之后很快就会分了。然后10对里可能有那么的1对,结果不分了,就永远在一起了。因为他们过了这么的一关。

真正的爱情没有特定的形式,也不该受到任何的限制,包括社会的枷锁。

Friday, December 02, 2016

Fail Advs : Best Room Ever !

This is an advertisement from a property listing site in Malaysia.  A sweet lady is looking for "the best room ever!" and then the smart boy helps her found one instantly !!


Fantastic !  Let's go find the Best Room Ever !!


Here comes the verdict !!  Hurray, I couldn't wait ~


WTF !!  If you have found nothing from your own suggested search, how would I know how to  further"REFINE" it?  Or do you mean I should broaden my search so I can at least find something?  But if "best room ever" is not broad enough, how in the world do I further broaden that search criteria !?!?

 ? WTF ?   ? WTF ?


Jokes aside, this is a good example of a creative advertisement with good intention with slightly above than average attractive factors.  Unfortunately it did not follow through with some real beneficial suggestions.  Viewers will either smile and walk away or conclude this is not a serious place for him to really look for real bargains.  It looks like a fun site but it fails to keep the fun up neither as shown case in this article.

If it puts a little humor into the system and show some fun results when people do search "Best Room Ever" then I am sure the advertisement effect will go much wider without additional cost.


Tuesday, October 18, 2016

毒品?药物?一线之差。

普偏大众对毒品的看法是害物。使用了只会带给你负效果,只有那些笨的人才会去尝试。
一样地,大部分人都会认为药物很重要,那是一种帮助人类从病里痊愈的一种必须品。

学医的人都知道,一种很微的毒品和一种很强的药物,它们的分别真的很微妙。全在于当时情况和需要的分量而已。却偏偏在医学里,我们却还真的不能完完全全地掌握人体的来龙去脉,所以在决定下药时,除了所有已知道的科学里,还真的必须拥有一定的经验。


~ 。 ~ 。 科幻 时间 。 ~ 。~

如果说人类有无限的能力。可以飞,可以变得力大无穷 。。。但根据现在人类的发展,那可能要到2699年后。  但现在有一种神丹,可以让你在服用后短时期里拥有人类完全能力的10%, 来去完成你想完成但不够时间的事。但把两千年后的能力提早到现在用,你必须付出的当然也是你的性命。

比如说,1小时的高能力来换取一年短寿,你愿意吗?你还需要吗?

~ 。 ~ 。 科幻 时间 完毕 。 ~ 。~


用过轻微毒品的人都知道,自己会变得很不同。有些人不喜欢,所以就再也不碰了。另一些人突然觉得他可以完成很多他平时做不了的事,一用再用就上瘾了。

万事过了该有或必须的尺寸当然就不好了,比如说伤害了自己或别人的身体,那就不管理由再好也都不能被认同了。

轻微的毒品用者有时候会假假向医药处拿咳嗽药,大量服用可以达到一点点麻痹的效果。 有那么一些动手术曾经用过麻醉药的也会觉得自己很厉害,不管什么事都能安全度过。

再轻一点的就是吸烟和酗酒了。这种也是能伤害身体的两种慢性毒?药?

所以当有人问,不明白为什么一些人要酗酒吃烟?

我只能分享,有一些事情,不管怎么说都很难让一些从来没经验过的人去体会。说了只会增加你的误解。

每一个人都有他自己的故事,不能一概而论。无可否认的是,大部分有不良嗜好的人一开始都是逃避。不管在逃避什么,他们都在到了某一种情况后,得到了一些平时得不到的感觉。再之后的就是所谓的药物上瘾了。

何谓毒品?烟酒算不算毒品?你觉得可不可能有一些药物也是和毒品一样的材料? 请留言分享, 谢谢!










Friday, May 20, 2016

what is our - identity - ?


Tuesday, January 19, 2016

秘密天堂

不久以前有人和我说过一个秘密天堂

过了一段时间后,结果时间证明了

秘密就没有永远的天堂

真正的天堂必须拥有无限的开放诚实自我告知,无需隐瞒

没有秘密

只有对方不能接受的事实。




Tuesday, December 29, 2015

nice little facts about T S E N

- Almost every TSEN are from USA, follows by Malaysia -




the meaning of TSEN is AWARD !

the reverse of TSEN is N E S T

Monday, November 23, 2015

specific language impairment

my first child has specific language impairment.
As she was my first child, I didn’t have experience.  I didn’t know what to expect and I kept on asking why !  why !! why !!!
Although I wasn’t a linguistic person but I have been able to communicate in a special way.  I talk to people in a way others couldn’t connect.  I thought I was special.  But why does my very own daughter had to go through the exact opposite?  Is it because I am special so she has to pay for my gift ?  Was it me who abuse my power given by god that now god took away something from her?  I ask and ask and ask … there wasn’t any answer.
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I couldn’t get up for a long long time.  Every time I looked at her, my tears drop.  Sometimes out from the eye lids, some other times tears just swallow back on.
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One day, I don’t know why nor how, I asked myself a question.  If she were to be like this, having this disability forever in her life, will I love her any less?
Suddenly I see the white in my grey world.  The answer is so obvious, so clear, so doubtless that I will love her the same if not MORE because with her disability she will need more of my love.  And I will have nothing else buy to give more and more.  Even if I have already given all of me today, I could still give her more the next day.
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Suddenly the world has changed, well at least my world has changed.  Every time I looked at her, I smile.  I know deep down inside, no matter what happen, I will love her the same.
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I started hugging her to sleep every night.  I talked to her as if she is my friend.  I told her about my happen moments, I told her about my sadness.  I pointed at the pattern of the wall paper and said, “see? This is rose, this is a symbol of love.  See how our room is full of love?”
Sometimes I hug her so long that I fell asleep standing.  Then she woke me up, wanting more stories.  I am the worst when I sing but I sang twinkle twinkle little star to her every night, every single night.  She never complains.  My wife ran to another room watching drama, haha ~  I would too.
She demanded more and more till sometimes I broke down too.  I couldn’t be the nice dad anymore and sometimes I have to admit I may have scolded and shouted at her.  She was totally frighten and she got worse.  Every single time I have to gain back control on my own, felt regretted, totally disappointed with myself … apologized to her, and hug her in tears again.
Very soon, I learned there is really no point for broken down.  If my love to her is really as strong as what I thought it is.  I would have been able to minimize all the hardship we have to go through together.  And focus merely on what else can we do better next?
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14 years later, now, she is a teenager.  She became the love expert among her friends despite she never date (officially).  She touches people life like how I did in the past.  She is no longer close to me as she used to before she went schooling.  But I have no regret, she is no longer like what I worried she might become.
Perhaps I was lucky.  Perhaps it was me who keeps talking to her although she couldn’t really understand a word I said when she was a baby, perhaps it was my anger shouting to her, perhaps it was me slept standing that night … that has changed her.  I will never know, and I don’t need to understand life.  Because even if she is not like what she is now, I will still love her the same.  So nothing else will matter – between my love and my daughter.
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At first I thought I have saved her.  But very soon I realize, it was her who has SAVED me.  For I LOVE her, unconditional love, that nothing else will come between us.  It is her allowance me to love her back that has kept me alive till to date.
Dear daughter, I love you and wish you the best in your subsequent journey ~
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One day I asked my mom, was I as talkative as I am now when I was a baby.  My mom laughed, NO, you were having specific language impairment when you were a baby.



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