Part of the FREE stuff comes with a relationship is Takes for Granted.
At one glance, one may feel it's a negative aspect,
and most people do end up negatively when too much are taken for granted indeed.
but not many realize it might not be Takes for Granted that caused the troubles
rather it is caused by the understanding and perception toward Takes for Granted.
It takes time to build trust in a relationship,
but once its built, it starts to roll into a comfort zone
If I think I know a person and trusted him
then very likely I am not going to worry too much about him
as I know and trust him already.
As such, whenever he has some slight changes
I may no longer be as sensitive as I first know him
because when I think I know a person and trusted him
I may have Taken him for Granted.
So when someone Takes you for Granted,
that's because he has trusted you up to some level
and he thought he knows you already
which is unfortunately not entirely true.
That's why falling in love with the same person again and again is entirely possible, true and has been happening everyday by great people. We may still Takes things for Granted but we see it as part of love and . . . it comes Free in a lasting relationship.
At one glance, one may feel it's a negative aspect,
and most people do end up negatively when too much are taken for granted indeed.
but not many realize it might not be Takes for Granted that caused the troubles
rather it is caused by the understanding and perception toward Takes for Granted.
It takes time to build trust in a relationship,
but once its built, it starts to roll into a comfort zone
If I think I know a person and trusted him
then very likely I am not going to worry too much about him
as I know and trust him already.
As such, whenever he has some slight changes
I may no longer be as sensitive as I first know him
because when I think I know a person and trusted him
I may have Taken him for Granted.
So when someone Takes you for Granted,
that's because he has trusted you up to some level
and he thought he knows you already
which is unfortunately not entirely true.
Because Who I am now
could be different
than Who I will be the next seconds
and different from Who I was yesterday.
That's why falling in love with the same person again and again is entirely possible, true and has been happening everyday by great people. We may still Takes things for Granted but we see it as part of love and . . . it comes Free in a lasting relationship.
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